In what way were you hwving a hard time with h's leaving?
Most of the time I can deal with the Mood thing I just do what ever but I do really think Menopause is haveing something to do with my feeling being all over the place right now. Went out after work last nite and got drunk Had a good time with a friend I went to school with that i have not seen in years. Got home when H did. TO bad for him.
SOunds like you are really busy with the party and everything. Try to get some help if you can. That might ease the tension a bit. HAve fun at dinner with your friend and keep me posted.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez