IM she has caused so much damage that I do not want her back, I just couldn't do it anymore. she has no place to run back to. I have felt that way for some time and just have been trying to negotiate with her. That does not seem to be working so now the L will have to deal with that and I will step back from all of that. unlike her I do not have anyone else, how could you being in a messy sitch like this. I will wait until all this is done and then maybe, but I have standards for any new R, and since I am not a bar person that limits my options I guess to the produce section at the local grocery store.
w8ing anything that I want she wants. it is ok that the cottage is sold my new building plans calls for about twice the size and could be a retirement home of i wanted.
"Worry is the price you pay for most of the things in life that never happen"