Hi Lin, I was wondering if you were still in a forum somewhere. There is a newcomer that could really use your help and encouragement. He is divorced, but does not want to give up. He sounds like somebody you could be helpful to. His name is deadmanwalking and just sent his first post over in newcomers. Would you take a look and see if you could talk to him? Thanks girlfriend.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!