jmw, I intend to get back to you later on, I am too indeed going through the court procedures so I do know how you feel and how it feels seeing xh after so long, thing is I am in a rust now but will get back to you, our stories are so similar and I am from the UK, just hold your head up and always remember you didn't start it all and you haven't done anything wrong, so let him be the one to hang his head with guilt etc, will be worth comparing our stories after the courts, I go back again on Monday. take care and hugs
