The solution is for you to go out with someone else and make him see he could lose you if he is not willing to commit.
Ala "homer"... I need to re-read that.
Naturally (stupidly?) my fear would be that he would start to date almost as a retaliation. I guess he could be going out on dates the nights we aren't together, but I mostly get him on the prime dating nights. He *did* have to 'share' that some 21 year old was coming on to him at a bar recently. The upshot was that he wasn't interested and she isn't "half the woman" I am; this was to show me that he isn't trying to just hook up with women and have sex. Let's reframe that to what he *is* saying-- he is looking for someone extra special that he can fall in love with.
Back to the original thought regarding dating-- I am not exactly sure *how* I would even find anyone to go out on a date with; I don't want to put myself out there on match.com or some such site, because that's not really where I am at mentally. As a solution goes, though, it is a heck of a lot easier and less expensive than moving; and it might even be fun.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
