Okay, here's the thing.

Right now, she can date whomever she wants. She is single. You know this. I'd say she's made it pretty loud and clear that she wants you to leave her alone. (Restraining order.) So, leave her alone. You really can't make her do anything.

I know you know this. So, stop telling her she's sinning, stop paying attention to her dating life. I'd even say stop initiating any unnecessary contact at all.

Okay? \:\)

What you can do is focus on yourself and your issues. As in, why are you pushing her so much? Try to understand her feelings, and her side. Again, she is single and has been single for quite some time now.

So, the idea is for you to work on yourself, and leave the door open for something in the future. It will then be up to her if she wants something more.

Make sense?


Azhira

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