Good point. But he initiated the D the first time. I did the second time- after being so frustrated after 18 months of nothing that I was giving up.
H sctually doesn't like to come to my house since this is the house he walked out of.
This weekend I'm not caving in. D has a competition on Sat and it's my weekend with the kids. H can either come here Sat night, or not spend the night with me.
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HS- glad it comes off that way. Sure as hell doesn't feel like I let things slide off my back. I stress way too much. But then I vent and I feel better. So I guess that's why it sounds like that.
