Hi Heim,
I just wanted to drop in & say how I'm enjoying Puddle's quick responses to you.

Some of them I wasn't quick enough to post before she got there, & others I hadn't thought of.

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Originally Posted By: Heimlich
Not as detached as I'd like to think I am.


From here, it doesn't look like you're detached at all. Of course this is all relative


That's kinda what it looks like from here too.


Quote:
I don't think you need to put your life on hold at all. To me, life is about many things, only one of which is an R. There's so much out there to do, so many things I want to learn and experience, and I can do all of those things by myself.


Puddle is right about this I believe...plus, when you live as though you don't need someone else to complete you, it makes you all the more attractive to the people you want to attract (like your W for instance).

(((((Heim)))))

Sunny


M-7 yrs
together-8 yrs
S-4yr
S-15yr

Bomb-4/25/07
Sep-same day
me-49
H-49

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