My POV on dating while you are still married. IT IS NOT CALLED DATING, IT IS CALLED AN AFFAIR!!! Or I may be wrong? Your wife may just me dating the OM and not having an affair?

You want to date. Get a divorce and move on wife you life. Then by all means date all you want. If you do not want a divorce and you are not ready to move on without your wife, then don't have an affair and DB your arse off. True 100% unadulterated DBing. No half assing it.

You do not need to date to boost your ego. You just need to work on your self esteem. An ego is what we use to replace our low self esteem. People with high self esteems do not have egos. They have pride and reassurance in their selves as an individual.


“Do you want to be RIGHT or want to be LOVED”
“You have to have a life to share a life with someone”
“When you stop resisting, you start learning”

M15yrs
Divorced 07/07