The kiss thing sounds way flat here, but didn't live. Anyway, yes, much less of that sort of thing. And, yeah, that's just kindof my sense of humor at times.
Regarding dating: 1. My W has made it clear since mid-April that she no longer wants to be married to me -- just under 6 months now. 2. My W is almost certainly seeing the once and future OM. 3. We are physically separated 4. We are financially separated 5. We are legally married, but this separation has no limits on it. It is a precursor to a D -- at my W's suggestion/insistence (see number 2 -- connection?). 6. I'm not looking for long-term R, nor telling anyone that I am. Just looking for a date -- a man and a woman going out and seeing if they enjoy each other's company. Then, if they do, doing so. 7. In all honesty, my ego could use a bit of a boost on this front. 8. It'll be fun. 9. I haven't been on a date in 17 years. What the hell does a date feel like these days?
Cons: 1. Still love W. Not as detached as I'd like to think I am. 2. I could meet and fall in love with someone wonderful before my W decides that she's made a mistake [is this even a con? How long do you put your life on hold on this front?]
Kelley, what pushed you into dating relatively quickly? (if you're still out there and not still riding your cowboy).
Anyway, these are just a few random thoughts, mostly me just thinking out loud, so to speak. Any comments welcome, but I reserve the right to have changed my mind on any of the above by the time you type somnething up
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Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY
