The Good, the Bad, and the Funny Part 5

[nephartiti]

Remember when I relayed the story of my friends parents? He had an affair, left the family, came back, now they are married 35 years? She says the jury is stil out. She does not know if she made the right decision. It's been over 30 years! This is just one of those things, I guess, but I think about this a lot, in the back of my mind.

There is no hurry. He took 6 months to come this far. Take your time to see what you want. You have been through so much. Isn't that funny how it works out? As soon as you are really done, he decides to look back. Go figure. We ARE so mammalian, aren't we?

I think it is awesome that you are taking your experience and helping others. It would be so easy for you to be bitter and say "down with the marriage thing".