Detaching is very hard to do. I still don't know if I have it down. some days are easier thatn others. This is where the GAL comes into play. The busier you are the less you focus on them. I know you want answers. You don't get to have them, at least not right now.

I'm glad you took the day for yourself. You don't know what he's thinking so as much as you can "act as if". Sucks to hear this, but it does help. At least it has me.