So when the new and young~again W is dating (but not really seeing anyone) old friends, is she with new and young~again old friends, or is she with just plain old friends that seem new again but not so old yet? Geez, no wonder she doesn't think she is seeing anyone. In replay their head spins so fast sometimes they can't even focus well enough to know what they are seeing in the mirror. They may know what they want to see. They may know what they want others to see. But they resist what is real. It paints them in a poor light and they will do anything to avoid being that person.
