I think some time clearing your mind will help bring things into focus. When in doubt don't make hasty decisions, do nothing. If you feel not dancing is the right choice, then don't. I would tend to think that he has to get used to the idea of life without you. Looking back at my sitch, I don't think I did this enough, I was there for her while living in the house. We are not done however, just looking back at the year in review.
