Hey Morgan-

I don't disagree at all with you. I am feeling the same way and wondering if I am crazy or an ingrate for not appreciating the crumbs I am being thrown. I don't want to move out-really. But I can see that it is turning into a thing where he will always have this "doubt" about his motivation for returning (if he does return) and that will get to be the "reason" for continual waffling in the future.

BTW- I saw what's happening in your sitch- I am SO sorry. \:\( I know you keep hearing it, but I'll say it anyway- I admire your strength.

Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing