mk, you are just about the sweetest person alive, putting yourself out there and talking to the people at the bar like you do. and omg, the description of those men in their new clothes trying to be and do what they most likely aren't ready to be and do. the day I decide I need to meet someone, btw, I'm afraid that will be me. lol. I like going out with friends and such right now, but there is no pressure, I'm not really putting myself out there...still kind of feel weird being out w/o my ring. naked, almost.
as for you and your situation, you know your own heart better than anyone. just make sure you are doing this because its right, because for you, this is what must be. you've fought a good fight...if you feel like its done, I won't argue with you, but just make sure you step back and really make sure you are done. what will divorce change for you?
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"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
