Can you elaborate on that? Like experimenting, or.. I think I know what you mean but I'll let you explain.
I think what I'm really saying is that I simply want to be able to openly and freely communicate about sex and interact sexually with someone in a very relaxed and confident manner. I want to be fluidly intimate in terms of sexuality. For instance, I'd love to be with the guy who might say "Man, I was hoping we could get it on tonight but I am exhausted. How 'bout you put that red dress on tomorrow night and let's make an evening of it." or the guy who would say "That's pretty good, let me tell/show you how I really like to be handled." or even "Let's not have sex for 3 weeks and then rent the jacuzzi suite and have a total f*ckfest weekend." Basically I just want to be with someone who would be very happy to have fairly frequent very intimate discussions on the topic of "What can we do to have the best, hottest, most emotionally connected sex life possible?"
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver