It's been over a year and a half since my wife & I had sex. We have been married over 22 years and have 3 kids S20, D16, D8. Neither one of us wants to break up the family but my wife tells me that she will stay with me as long as she has to but will never be intimate again. She says "I just don't feel it". I love my family very much but NEVER is a long time, for that matter a year and a half is a long time. Our marrisge is so on the rocks that I never mention it any more. One day she says she wants out and is looking for somewhere else to go but never does. I think she does not want to look like the bad guy so she is starving me out for all forms of affection in hopes I will move out and save face for her. The sexlife has never been great but good enough to honor a life long comitment I made a long time ago. I still love her very deeply but just don't know how long is long enough to keep waiting for things to get better. Any thoughts would be appreciated.
