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The point is mmot, the OP is a bandaid, because they are a distraction to the MLCer, they tell them all the things they want to hear, do all the things they want to do.

yup yup soooooo true.

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The real friends aren't the ones who always cheer you on, but instead sometimes tell you that you are f-ing up. Not in the OP's gameplan or script normally.

my H is soooo lucky in this mess to have his good friend Warren


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest