I really think it is beyond him now to show contrition or remorse. If he actually did wee the reality I believe he may become suicidal, like my friend's BIL. Denial is actually a safer alternative for him right now and his affair is the heroine he needs to sustain his new lifestyle. Without the OW there would be no one left to support him. I gave up on him 4-6 weeks ago??
So why am I still DBing?
I actuallyDBed to two customers last night. They had newly divorced Dads written all over them. They looked so scared to be out there. They were around my age and looked like they just went to Macy's to buy hip clothes. So awkward. Turns out both men were recently divorced and are trying to date but are very sad about it. I told them to get DR and never to give up on their WAWs. They needed to hear it from a woman's perspective that they actually did not do everything they could to save their marriages. They let their egos get in the way.
The one Dad said he had not even thought of dating another woman and was scared after 17 years of marriage to even try. I felt so bad for him! I knew how he felt!
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
