A new year Part XIV

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IMO just the fact that you realize that you are maybe not perfect is making you a perfect father. You will do fine no matter what life deals to you. Hop on here and vent as you need to and as you see you will have the support you are looking for. Ian, you are going to do great with your kids, just try to understand that they are going to deal with all this in the only way they know how. If your D is a little distant at school for a while and her grades slip a bit, just try to remind yourself what lessons they are learning through all of this and I think you will agree, even though this lesson sucks for them also, it will be something that will help them later in their life as much as the school work they are missing now.