Don't expect any promises from him.. the less you expect the less you will get hurt.. believe me. He's in a zone right now and yes I read that he sent you messages.. he's definately confused and needs to find his way.
You on the other hand need to do things for yourself, get out when you can.. Im going out tomorrow night with my gf.. first time in a very long time, but my h is away on business and I just need it bad. ' Its good to let go and have a good time without worrying about him, god knows we do enough of that!
tal
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.