You are THE MAN, Dave! So much carefree confidence that you don must be absolutely appealing to W (though she isn't quite sure how she should feel about that, I'm sure! She's gotta be confused, and that's not all bad).
Keeping the expectations on the backburner is great, and keeping you able to be this awesome new person in W's eyes. I'm in awe -- you make me want to ask my W about having a good meal lately too (though I know that it wouldn't work out quite as well for me!)!