Here's to the Happy Me!!

[jersting]

He then said that I could bring clothes tomorrow and then leave from him house Sunday morning for my private. I didn't reply.

Not gonna go. It's starting the same thing again. I ask him over, he says no but then wants me to go to his house.

Cheeseless tunnel. I want to be with him, but not when it's aways at his place and on his terms. Everytime I say ok and go over there after he turned me down I feel like I'm "rolling over" or how do I put this.... like I'm not being true to me- Im doing only what he wants- like being controlled or manipulated-- submissive... weak...

does that make sense or am I just being crazy?

Just my take on this Sox, my w asks me to come over and I do but I won't spend the night there. The reason I won't is because I think about what she may have done there on a weekend when the kids were with me and it drives me nuts even if nothing had happend. I always try to have her come to my house because I know what has happend there. I would rather have her come to my house because the chance of us spending the night together is much beter than if I go to her house. Maybe your h looks at this the same way as me. I realize you are the one trying to fix your marriage, but in your h's eyes, you are the one that initiated the D.