Not an ex,
No worries. Most of the time after I slip up, by the time I've posted it here, I've already 2x4ed myself. Keep the comments coming.

I really was taken aback by the reality of watching the girls adjust. They are adjusting and I know that they WILL adjust and be OK. Knowing that and living through it are two totally different things though. Feeling better about that day by day, like everything else. Hang in there WAW. I think I've mentioned it, but I don't even remember my parents ever being together except when I got dropped off -- and I usually walked in the house by myself. I was 4 too. Odds are, your D won't remember much of this and it will just become her normal. I know it sucks, but hope that helps a little.

OT, thought you were going to give up on me. Doing the best I can to give her the space from me that she wants. The longer I'm separated (hard to believe it's only been 4 weeks this Thursday); the easier it becomes. Now, the question is, after being treated like a mushroom for so long, how do you keep from having expectations when a little sunlight falls on you ;\) I know that you're right about my W and I'm doing my best to keep my mouth shut about any R stuff.

Mandy, I think I have your email somewhere, but to move things along, email me and I'll happily send you what I've got.

BD


My latest

Me: 36
W: 35
2 D: 9 and 5
T: 16 years
M: 12
10/4/06: Bomb
10/5/06: Ended A
4/22/07: ILYBNILWY

I'm a beautiful butterfly.