You can either allow W to treat you with decency, normal care and concern, and NOT have it result in you building expectations and thus increasing the pressure you are putting on her, OR you can allow it to build your expectations, increase the pressure you put on W, and drive her away further.
Simply because someone treats you decently does not mean that they are considering a romantic R with you. W is treating you decently because you have given her space to do so and she is a caring person. Full stop.
