Plank removed from my eye, too late for WAW? 6

[not an ex yet]

Wow, Heim that last post could have come straight out of my head! I know what you mean about losing the trust and being nervous if she were to come back now. As much as I want that with my H, I don't want it like this. He is undependable (is that a word?,it sounds funny) and self centered right now and there is alot of hurt that we both still need to sort out.
Hope I didn't come off as uncaring earlier, I just see so much of myself in your posts. I see how what I am doing is pushing my H away and it seems so obvious when I see someone else doing it, but I can't figure it out in my own sitch. Does that make sense? Anyway, have fun with your kiddos!