I guess thats all of our lessons for the week...stop the pursuit. I am trying to get to my personal email so someone can send me these fabulous Homer reads. Right now I only have work access and they block everything...those joykills
The kid stuff is so tough. I have to listen to the "I want to go homes" "I miss my Daddy" "I don't like it here" and she is only 4. I imagine it gets worse if they are older. I try not to take it personally and chalk it up to the transition. Although it still sucks and makes you feel rotten as a parent. And yes, when I come to get her and she runs over screeching that she missed me so so so so so much with hugs and kisses I can't help but feel vindicated from all the little digs she makes otherwise.
Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.