Hi Sandi2, hey I have a question I need to ask you since you were in the WAW sitch as my W is now. Would you, or did you, when in your R with the OM, think about anything other than that R? I ask b/c my W now has been throwing out hints about different things, such as saturday she suggested we look for a new refrigerator b/c the one we have now is falling apart, also she has cut her hair, knowing full well that I really like her hair that way, telling the OM that she knows that i dont like her hair long and she does it to tick me off, and just be overly friendly. Saturday she and my D went grocery shopping and she came home and got upset b/c she forgot a few things, namely grape juice that i have been drinking for quite some time. She made it a point to have to go back to get these things. Now I know you said that you couldnt leave due to financial things, however my W makes a lot more than me and could walk out the door tomorrow and not have to worry about money. My question is this: Do you think that by doing the things she is now doing, that she is trying to come back into the R? I cant imagine that she would cut her hair when she knows that i like it that way. Someone suggested that she did it for the OM, but since he lives over 3 hours away, i doubt it. Also, why would she be so nice to me if she wanted this over? It was friday a week ago after i sent her an email about supporting her in her work sitch that she started to come around. Thank you for your help.
