I am so busy GALing that I need to get another life! I bought myself a new digital SLR as I am taking photography even more seriously. Made plans to visit the 'Titanic' exhibit at the Nature & Science museum this weekend. Have plans to meet the DD's teachers for their conference.
My discussion with W on the weekend went well, everything was agreeable. Except at the end she accused me again for getting the Ls involved. She is under such a thick fog, that she is not seeing through the fact that the girls are being taught a very bad lesson - its ok to have relationships outside the marriage.
Talking about Ls, I got a nasty mail from W's L saying that I should stop making empty threats and blatant attempts to control my W's life! This is insane. I never never said or wanted to control my W's life - the rope is laying on the floor, she has the space and freedom to do whatever she wants to do. All I asked was to stop exposing the 2 DDs to her OM when they are with her.
Bruce, great message there - "create the sacred right here, right now". thats what I am gonna do. my option is to continue to escalate the fight by asking for a court order or dropping the fight completely making sure that the girls are not being damaged emotionally any further than what they have already been. I dropped a few tears again yesterday, got my detachment level up another notch and decided to take the 2nd option. I am planning to take the DDs to a family therapist and take a therapeutic approach to this issue rather than a 'fight and scream and make the L's more wealthy' approach.
my DDs say that everything in mom's apartment is red. she even mentioned something about MLC color to the DDs. huh!
someday the fog is going to lift and they will get to see the life beyond the red and the 'Car and Driver' magazine. in the meantime we will be far ahead in our journey with a dust storm behind our heels.
