We'll things are continuing on. I guess since I'm not going to "roll over" and cough up everything, things aren't going to go as she planned. Last night, because of W actions, we were late to something. When reprimanded about it by other people, W was in tears. She was too wrapped up in "redefining her life" activities, that she made us late for this family function. I was the last person picked up as the family left town for this function, therefore I had no responsibility in the late arrival and W had no one to blame. Perhaps this is the tough part, taking ownership of own problems.
Anyhow W surgery went well. She seems to be healing, however still has to sleep sitting up, so we have digressed into the WCW sleeping arrangement. We'll give it some time and see how this goes.