Dom R, may I say something that really has nothing to do with the ED debate? While I often disagree with you your posts are ususally well worth considering, even if I end up still disagreeing. However, out of all the posters both your posting style and the "attitude" that comes accross irritate me more than anyone else's on this entire board. I disagree with quite a few other posters on a regular basis (Cobra for example) but he doesn't irritate me nearly as much.
In your case, even reading your most harmless posts I have to consciously bring down my blood pressure and avoid a reflexive "this must be wrong just because Dom R posted it". Intellectually I know that's not true and that your position may well have merit. The reflex is still there. I know nothing about your sitch so I don't know if this has been an issue in your marriage, but in case it has been I wanted to throw it out there for your consideration. You "seem" rigid and controlling to me, and you trigger my "hiss fight and scratch" cat reflexes, even though you may not be that way at all.
If this has never been a problem in your marriage and is just about "me" feel free to disregard it. After all, "we" are not married. Probably good for the china in your house. *g*
