Im sorry for that. and I hope I helped a little. Before you can ever start trusting him again he has to come clean. You probably will never fully trust him, I still don't, it takes a long time to get to that place, and for me I don't know if I will ever be there.
I hope you are wrong, that he is not living with anyone, but if he is, you need to detach and gal.. 20 phone calls in one day! it seems he may have an addiction, affairs often are. and yes he is lost.
Has he shown any signs of wanting to work it out with you?
tal
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
