OK, weekend out of the way and ...... the rollercoaster is on the up.
Saturday we had to go into town and get new contact lenses for W.
Pottered around town picking up bits and bobs, and then came home to watch the rugby. W cleaned the car whilst I pottered. Wasn't feeling too well and was taking medicine to try and fight it off. We were also due out with some friends that night to listen to a local band and W said that if I didn't feel well enough, that she would go on her own. I was determined to fight feeling ill and we went out and enjoyed a nice evening. Came back just before midnight and settled into bed, still feeling ill.
We woke up early on Sunday and I decided to initiate (see if it would help my illness ). W and I then became intimate which was lovely and then fell back asleep, W then got up and tidied around the house, something she has not done for ages.
In the afternoon we were due to travel to a hotel for an overnight and again W asked (when I got up), if I felt well enough. Stated that I wanted to go (it was a Christmas present from her) and we set off at 4.00 p.m. Pleasant drive, small talk and singing along to Elvis. Arrived at 7.17 p.m. and had a pleasant meal then watched the Scotland rugby match (boo hiss). Then bed. I didn't sleep well as I was nervous about Land Yachting next day.
Woke at 7.00 a.m. and I decided to get intimate again.....and we did Only downer was there was no wind so I didn't get to do the activity. Instead we agreed to travel to Canterbury and visit the Cathedral; before that we had a nice walk next to the sea. Nice afternoon spent there, bought some Christmas presents for my father and the children, followed by a pleasant journey home.
Little to no R talk all weekend and when we went to bed last night, W stated she was not looking forward to work.
Overall, a very enjoyable weekend. I will not pressure her for intimacy now as she is going into the wrong phase of her cycle and has just started a hard week’s work. Will leave her until the middle of our holiday and see what happens. C this week also, so we will see what that brings.
I am glad I fought my illness as previously I would have given in and not bothered going out, so tick in the box for me.