I did decide a few things. I had a dream a few nights ago that I was invited to their wedding - maybe reading BBA's Evite thread.
I wouldn't go if I was.
But it brought up kids' b-days, etc...
We will have separate parties. That is how it has to be. He won't be putting that cow in my face because I'm not into beastiality.....and I've come to a lot of conclusions about him (and her)....
What kind of woman takes over a relationship where the other left off, knowing what kind of damage has been done - not allowing him to "heal" and be whole before she takes that on?
They deserve each other. I have no respect for either of them, and hope they make each other happy.
My lack of respect is mostly for him and his lack of support and lackluster parenting record as of late.....
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...