I just skimmed a bit of your thread again, you seem to know why you are where you are. This didn't come out of the blue -- you were drinking, temper(?), and doesn't seem like either of you were talking to the other -- hence the EA's on both of your parts.
You keep saying you hit the high points and disregard the filler. Lots of times, life's in the filler between the high points.
BD
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Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY