What is reasonable and what is not?

[Startingover2]

Feeling a bit down today. This is so hard and my patience is thin.

I can't say things are going bad, because they are going well. It's just me. I feel like exh has the perfect life. He can come and go here, see his child when she is born, be a family when he wants and then when he wants peace and quiet or independence he goes home. I feel like this is the perfect scenario for him. Why should he ever change?

Yes, we are piecing. Trying to put our marriage back together. It just seems like there haven't been and talks lately about the future. How long do we plan on doing this?

My counselor thought things were good now and not to rush. Maybe its my pregnancy hormones. I know in my heart I don't want him to move back in without being married. Not just live together.

He has been in a bad mood these past few days. I automatically think its me. I have no idea what it is. He says he is just stressed. Stressed about what? He has the perfect life.