I know how you feel about wanting to confront and ask. Its what your heart wants, and sometimes DB'ing goes against our hearts. But, what we have tried in the past isn't working, so let's try something new. What do we have to lose? How long is his trip? Is there any way you can find out if she is FOR SURE going without asking him? I can't imagine how you are feeling right now. I am so sorry.
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The ONLY things I do know right now are:
I love my H with all I have
I DO NOT want a divorce
I forgive him for all of it
I believe we can R and make it work for good
I have made changes in me that would make a world of a difference in our marriage if I just had the chance
You know this, we know this, but you really can't tell H all of this right now. It sucks!!! He won't hear it, won't take it the right way, and won't believe it. I told H that I am trying to forgive him and that I love him a long time ago and he called me a liar saying "How could you love me? How is that possible? You don't forgive me, you are lying". Not a good outcome.
