But, he won't say it after we ML. I don't know why. ================== HE says it! that's what counts. During our best times, after ML we'd just cuddle and caress, our way to say ILY I guess. Unless your H *always* said it in the past, I dont' see anything wrong with it, if you want him to say it then say it first instead of brooding why he isnt' saying it.
I hear you about the moodines and snappy outbursts, I almost want to blame that on beign an officer and the kind of impact it has on their lives. Did you ever get that "i love a cop" book? it has great insights about how the job changes people.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.