fear is your greatest enemy, visualize your M troubles as a firebreathing dragon, it is out to get you and you must fight with all your might, you've come so far. You are giving ow too much power.
Whatever is bothering you, when you bring it up, do not begin by soundign defensive and using negatives "we/you never"
Offer a plan and I bet he runs with it, begin with "I feel unconfortable about xyz, could we do such and such? When you bring up a problem he might be feeling attacked.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
