Time for healing without closing the door

[Heimlich]

you know your H better than us -- will going dark get his attention or push him further away?

If you want to go through this whole DBing thing, you're opening yourself to an entire world of emotional pain (lots of growth to, but it hurts like hell -- at least for me).

Haven't read your sitch, but are you clingy? Have you been the one to push for reconciliation in the past? Do you need him, not want him? If so, maybe detaching from dancing lessons would be a good thing. On the other hand, that regular contact is something many of us would kill for. It's an opportunity to connect and have fun together. No definitive advice, but which one is the 180 for you?

Rushing to a meeting. Hope that made some sort of sense.

BD