You're not careless, or at least you've never given any indication that you are.
GP: You weren't dressed warmly enough the last time I saw you.
Mojo: Well, as you get to know me better you will discover that I'm the kind of woman who is always losing her mittens. Will you help me find my mittens?
GP: (rather crossly) No, I am not going to help you find your mittens. You will just have to pin your mittens to your coat.
Mojo: (sigh)
Lol. That's not careless. That's absent-minded. There is a difference.
That was a weird exchange... unless he was joking.
I told you he treats me like a pet. Actually, I think it's partly due to the fact that he raised both of his sons as a single father. He kind of reminds me of my grandmother sometimes.
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Well, at least he didn't tell her she can't have any pie.
ROTFLMAO. Nah, he's okay with me eating pie 'cause in his opinion I am on the thin side of "thick" and "thick" is what he likes. As a reward for having such a good attitude, I shall be bringing him and his son some giant chocolate chip cookies tomorrow. The sad truth is they are bringing out my cow because it is kind of pathetic to see how a 52 year old man and a 12 year old boy live together. Multiple big screen TVs and zero plants. Steak and popsicles in the fridge. Harry Potter posters with the eyes gouged out hanging on the wall etc. Did I mention that the reason I responded to GP's initial email was that he said he and his little guy were having trouble finding anyone who was willing to come see what they were about? I ignored atrocious spelling and the fact that he didn't include a picture because he got me in my weak spot.
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"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
Look in the basement next time you go there. If there are skeletons of women chained to the walls, leave immediately.
No skeletons. Just another big screen TV, leather sofas, pool table, assorted gaming systems and martial arts movies. Pretty much every room in the house is a recreation room.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
Wow. That kid must really be enjoying life, although he's probably more than a little tired of the menu unless they eat out all the time.
The year that my dad and I were on our own, we had a little apartment with no posters or rec rooms or anything. I got more hot dogs that year than I would have liked, but I did at least get vegetables sometimes. Out of a can, but still.
Not all single dads act like overgrown boys.
a fine and enviable madness, this delusion that all questions have answers, and nothing is beyond the reach of a strong left arm.
My thought for the day. What I really want in a sexual partner is somebody who will allow me to rummage around in his sexuality like a good easy-going friend will allow you to rummage around in her kitchen. Of course, a well-stocked pantry and spice rack and some high-quality tools would be quite nice but the freedom/ease to rummage around for a snack or borrow a cup of sugar or cook a meal together or squabble over whether white sauce lasagna is really lasagna is what I most desire. The only way I can think to achieve this is just to keep babbling as honestly/openly as possible with the men I encounter about sexuality. If anybody has a better idea please let me know.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
What I really want in a sexual partner is somebody who will allow me to rummage around in his sexuality like a good easy-going friend will allow you to rummage around in her kitchen
Can you elaborate on that? Like experimenting, or.. I think I know what you mean but I'll let you explain.
Can you elaborate on that? Like experimenting, or.. I think I know what you mean but I'll let you explain.
I think what I'm really saying is that I simply want to be able to openly and freely communicate about sex and interact sexually with someone in a very relaxed and confident manner. I want to be fluidly intimate in terms of sexuality. For instance, I'd love to be with the guy who might say "Man, I was hoping we could get it on tonight but I am exhausted. How 'bout you put that red dress on tomorrow night and let's make an evening of it." or the guy who would say "That's pretty good, let me tell/show you how I really like to be handled." or even "Let's not have sex for 3 weeks and then rent the jacuzzi suite and have a total f*ckfest weekend." Basically I just want to be with someone who would be very happy to have fairly frequent very intimate discussions on the topic of "What can we do to have the best, hottest, most emotionally connected sex life possible?"
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
