Don't confront. Give him space - that's if you want him back that is.
It sux, it hurts, you want them to know how much you hurt and how selfish they are being. But you know what? They think they are in more pain than you. Anything you do to rub his nose in his guilt will drive him away further.
That's my 2c. Unfortunately I haven't got the DB books. They aren't readily availalbe in Oz and finances are a smidge tight.
I just want to help you out cos you hadn't gotten much response. It's frustrating. I haven't heard much either.
