My thought for the day. What I really want in a sexual partner is somebody who will allow me to rummage around in his sexuality like a good easy-going friend will allow you to rummage around in her kitchen. Of course, a well-stocked pantry and spice rack and some high-quality tools would be quite nice but the freedom/ease to rummage around for a snack or borrow a cup of sugar or cook a meal together or squabble over whether white sauce lasagna is really lasagna is what I most desire. The only way I can think to achieve this is just to keep babbling as honestly/openly as possible with the men I encounter about sexuality. If anybody has a better idea please let me know.


"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver