Lets try thing again!!!!

[Heartbroken]

Hello Limbo,

Please don't be discouraged - you are one positive sitch I see my sitch a few months behind. Just remember it is usually 1 step foward and 2 back on most days right?

Maybe you can break the issue into smaller chunks and try to alter how you deal with pieces of the problem. Don't bite off more than the two of you can handle. Men are not talkers like us women and that is part of the problem for most of us.

I am not sure if I even help you with my words - in my own sitch my H sounds so discouraged like he just wants to throw in the towel and it's only been 3 1/2 mos since he's come home. I like to think of where we were a year ago and compare it to now - I see so many positives.

Think of all our peers out here that would give their right arm to have come as far as you and your H - just continue taking it in baby steps day by day. I told H last nite it took a long time for us to get so disconnected it will not be fixed overnight...

Have a great Tuesday and work on the PMA!!!

HB