There is a common theme in hip hop Music where the rapper boasts that his mistress does things the wife will not do any more Sometimes that is the nature of sexuality in our culture.
you know, when I first found out about H's affair I talked daily/many times a day with my friend. at one point she was telling me if her H ever did this, she would have some fun with it, bringing stuff up and such (again, a hypothetical, who knows if she really would...but knowing her, she would). so during one of H's and my blowups (this was early on), just for her, I threw in a few choice comments about how I'm sure OW does x and x. now, I love sex...love it. have fun with it. but there are one or 2 things I have zero interest in. figured at least he was getting that from ow. He was horrified that i said it...and said, in this appalled voice, that ow would never do that.
omg, I had to laugh. it was so funny the way he said it. and this is something he sure would like, so if you are going to go outside of your marriage, wouldn't you at least make sure this was on the menu?
I had my friend laughing so hard when I relayed the conversation.
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
