toh, you get over it by getting to a place where you realize that right now you are better off without him. You finally understand that he is incapable of having a healthy relationship/marriage today and you deserve more than he has to offer.
Sometimes I am hesitant to post things like what I posted because I do not want new people to get lost in the emotion and misinterpret my feelings as being lost or confused about my situation. It takes time, hard work, and incredible patience to get to that peaceful place. It takes unconditional love to gain the ability to let go of something that you love dearly and trust that if it is meant to be then God will bring your spouse back around and you will be together again.
With that said, it also takes faith that God may have other plans for you and there may be someone else that is meant to be in your life down the road that will make you happy and be a spouse that you deserve.
