Just wondering....and maybe some along with me....
Why is it that if the op is more of a bandaid, that some of our spouses, do not lead the happy life that they so thought they would lead ? Why is it that some still look miserable and suffer with health problems....
What good is a bandaid if the person really needs antibiotics? IF the MLCer has some serious unresolved emotional issues, a bandaid R does nothing but distract the MLCer from the issues...eventually they resurface and the MLCer still feels bad, lost, abandoned, whatever. JMO, of course!
