Forrest Gump and his box of choclates.

[littlebitlost]

Whats it gonna take for her to get bombed?

Maybe exactly this........what you are doing now? Have you physically split before? when she realizes that she may have pushed too far and that you aren't going to put up with it anymore?....that might be what it takes. That is what it took for me. I had committment issues too. When i realized that he had had it and that he might really be gone THAT is what made me want to be a better person, made me want to do whatever it will take to show and prove that I am a better person, that giving me another chance just might be something he could try.

I understand how you must feel right now as i have thought and delved deep into how I made my H feel. But it took him putting the fear of god into me that I may just have really DONE IT this time.

And really is calling yourself a DAM tuly what you think you are? I KNOW it isnt and I can't imagine the neg connatations that come with saying thngs like that, even if youdon't really mean it, on a subconcsious level, must be somewhat damaging to you. So Smart Ass, stop that!!!!!