Remember when I found that very silly and romantic email exchange between my H and OW? I left a voicemail where I giggled and told him he needed to get a private email acct or else I might stumble upon an email titled "I wub you" and I hung up giggling. You should do that. It is to the point, empowering, and it takes the heat off that you snooped. Tell him to get his own bank acct that is private or you might come across a purchase from the Banger Brothers!
Hey, I have been celibate 8 months now. I may visit a naughty site myself for some toys that were recommended on this very forum by some devoted wives!
Now that I know more about your H's background I can see why his purchase may be so disturbing to you! There is a common theme in hip hop Music where the rapper boasts that his mistress does things the wife will not do any more Sometimes that is the nature of sexuality in our culture. The wife becomes the madonna, mother figure more than the whore. We cannot compartmentalize our lives like that. You are obviously a very nurturing and loving soul. Porn is about emptiness.
Last edited by mkultra; 10/09/0710:08 AM.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
